At this stage of our lives, in the third act, Cathy and I talk about the type of place where we might one day live. One important thing to us is not to be in a retirement community but instead surrounded by people of all ages—young families, kids, and adults at different stages of life. It seems like a more vibrant way to live, and the data says we live longer (and happier) when people of all ages surround us.
Cathy’s physiotherapy career mainly involved babies and children, but she also did home health, where she treated older adults. It was common for Cathy to come home and talk about some wisdom she had picked up from someone in their later years. She loved this age group, and now we are approaching being in this age group!
I’ve written about Ikigai, the Japanese concept of a “reason for being”.
- Ikigai values the wisdom of those who have lived long lives, as their experience embodies the principles of fulfilment, purpose, and resilience.
- Elders are respected for qualities like patience, gratitude, and perspective, which help guide others, especially younger generations, in finding their Ikigai.
See: Make Ikigai on Make Anything Thursday.
Today is Woman Power Wednesday, and I celebrate Julia Louis-Dreyfus and her podcast, ‘Wiser Than Me’. Sally turned us on to Julia’s podcast, and it is brilliant. Her interview style and wit make for great listening. Her guests are remarkable women with funny, personal stories about their journeys and the wisdom that only comes from living long, vibrant lives. We recommend Bonnie Raitt, Jane Fonda, Carrol Burnett, and Billy Jean King.
[Julia Louis-Dreyfus is an acclaimed American actress and comedian best known for her television roles, where she has consistently earned accolades for her impeccable comedic timing and relatable characters. She first gained widespread recognition on Saturday Night Live in the 1980s. Her career skyrocketed when she played Elaine Benes on the iconic sitcom Seinfeld, a role that earned her a place as one of the most memorable characters in TV history. Louis-Dreyfus then continued her success with The New Adventures of Old Christine and later Veep, where her portrayal of the ambitious and flawed politician Selina Meyer won her a record number of Emmy Awards.]
