No such thing as a bad shot; only interesting shots

Emily driver swing

Make it a Great MondayDear Harvey,

Do you remember when Emily and I created this mantra while learning the game of golf together? She was in elementary school, I was in my early forties, both of us standing over balls that rarely did what we planned.

There is no such thing as a bad shot.

Only interesting shots.

It wasn’t denial.

Some shots were objectively terrible. But they were still interesting. They forced creativity. They revealed the slope you hadn’t noticed. They asked a better next question.

Late last week, I was handed one of those shots.

I received news that my add-on sales role is likely being made redundant along with 1000 other Autodesk sales jobs. On paper, that sounds like a bad shot. In practice? Just an interesting one.

Because here’s what golf teaches that life confirms: The ball is already where it is.

You don’t get extra strokes for wishing it landed somewhere else. You get one choice.

How are you going to play the next shot?

Right now, there’s work in motion. Real momentum. Serious conversations. Pilots being discussed around how operational edge data is connected, secured, and managed – especially when it starts to matter for things like resilience, trust, and ESG accountability.

That kind of work doesn’t care much about org charts or titles. It cares about continuity. About judgment. About not walking off the course mid-hole just because the wind shifted.

So this moment isn’t an ending. It’s a ball that lies a bit off center and needs reading. A stance adjustment. A reminder that the most interesting shots often come when the plan meets reality and loses the argument.

Harvey, you always said the game reveals who we are under pressure – not when every ball is striped down the middle, but when the ball finds a place that demands imagination.

This one does.

And whether the next shot is a punch-out, a lay-up, or a bold carry over trouble, I’m still swinging. Still curious. Still paying attention.

No bad shots.

Only interesting ones.

Make it a great Monday,

gPage

Bunker shot
gPage bunker escape – Gullane Golf Club, Scotland – time to make a putt!

“Millions of people were charmed by the homespun golf advice dispensed in Harvey Penick’s Little Red Book, a sports classic that became the best-selling sports book of all time. Yet, beyond the Texas golf courses where Penick happily toiled for the better part of eight decades, few people knew the self-made golf pro who coaxed the best out of countless greats — Tom Kite, Ben Crenshaw, Betsy Rawls, Mickey Wright — all champions who considered Penick their coach and lifelong friend.” – Kevin Robbins, author of Harvey Penick: The Life and Wisdom of the Man Who Wrote the Book on Golf.

[Icons by youngest, Lucy Singletary Barfield @lucybarfieldcreative.]

NUGGETS began in the fall of 2010 when our oldest daughter left for college. (Make it a Great Monday; Stay Whole Tuesday; Woman Power Wednesday; Make Anything Thursday; and Fit as a Fiddle Friday.) All these years later, we have a UGA grad, a SCAD grad, a Fightin’ Texas Aggie grad, and 1500 nuggets. Plus, Mum and Dad up and moved to England. Those are my daughters above, and their guiding light – truly my every gPage Singletary thing.

featured nugget

featured project

RELEVANCE: From Beginning to End

How do you find and enjoy a place of purpose when you start your career, throughout your career, and when you stop ‘working’ and use your wisdom, resources, and skills to give back to the world? That’s right, from beginning to end. You don’t have to settle for doing things you do not enjoy.

learn more about gPage

Expat in London. Digital transformation and strategy executive, Autodesk

"Pretty good juggler of the mind, the heart, the body, and the soul, though certainly not catching all the balls all the time." See my road of life by license plates. How did NUGGETS FROM DAD begin? What in the world is every gPage Singletary thing?

featured series: Staying in the Game

Dear Harvey: Staying in the Game

In the end, Harvey, you left us your Little Red Book—a lifetime of lessons condensed into something small enough to fit in a pocket, yet broad enough to guide generations. These letters are my attempt, in a much humbler way, to do the same—to gather what the game has taught me so far, and to keep discovering what lies at the edges.

featured series: Lateral Thinking + AI

Lateral Thinking & AI: The Future of Making

Lateral Thinking + AI is a five-part Make Anything Thursday series exploring how artificial intelligence is reshaping not just the tools we use, but the way we think. From systems-level insight to the power of lateral thinking, the series connects AI with the human imagination — showing how creators, leaders, and future makers can thrive in a world where machines accelerate the work and our thinking elevates it.

Discover more from gPageSingletary.com

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading